【翻译】Type Six Variant Stackings 六号的本能变体

Type Six Variant Stackings

Self-pres/social

This subtype of Six is generally warm and friendly. The self-pres combines withthe social instinct in such a way that the Six looks to find security inalliances. This type is the least counterphobic of the instinctual stackings oftype Six. It*s not so much that they can’t be counterphobic; it’s just notwhere they locate their security. They would rather feel comforted by thesafety of like-minded individuals. Family and traditions are often veryimportant to them. They can appear like enneatype One in their ability to getthings done, their organizational style, their sense of duty, and theirloyalty. This type is usually very independent and proactive when it comes tothe details of life. They get things done before they become a problem. On thedown side, they can become frozen with anxiety. This stacking is the mostvisibly anxious Six. They can exhaust themselves from worrying.

In relationships, when healthy, they are very loyal and trustworthy. Theself-pres in the Six brings a focus on security. Security to theself-pres/social Six is generated by connections with other individuals orgroups. These alliances with others foster a "going towards." Thisstance usually involves a testing of others to make sure that they are safe.Does the other person have the best interests of the Six at heart? Theyquestion other*s intentions. It’s not generally an overt confrontationaltesting, but still, testing others is always an essential element indetermining who becomes a trusted friend or romantic partner.



Self-pres/sexual

This type shares with the self-pres/social stacking the need to keep theirenvironment in order. They also can appear One-like in that way. Thedifferences revolve around the fact that they find their security more in theirability to attract a mate. They are concerned about how they are seen sexually.Their alliances to groups and authority can be quite conflicting. With thesocial instinct last in their stacking, this subtype can have a naturaldistrust of the social dynamic, especially when they fear it threatens theirself-preservational concerns. The stance with regards to political or socialconcerns can vary wildly within this subtype. The self-pres is looking forsafety and alliances with others, usually in a "going towards"fashion, but at the same time, the more assertive energy of the sexual instinctcan manifest in a more counterphobic stance.

Their intimates are very important. Their issues with security are focused ontheir loved ones; their anxiety is closely tied to the pulse and feedback ofthe people closest to them. They are less outwardly fearful than theself-pres/social. While mainly phobic, their counterphobic nature shows intheir sense of fun. They are drawn to intensity, and are likely to overcomefear in order to engage in adventures.(This is especially true with the Sevenwing.)



Social/self-pres

This type appears One-like also, but for different reasons. This time, thesocial instinct combines with the self-pres to give this subtype a strongdesire to know where they fit within the group, with whom they can make strongalliances. Conversely, they can counterphobically oppose groups. They areusually political in some form. Adhering to rules is seen as very important tothis type. They have issues with authority, such as distrusting reactively ortrusting too vehemently. This is the result of their lack of a close connectionto people (a function of the undeveloped sexual instinct). Their allegiance isnot to individuals but to a group of like-minded others. This subtype couldpossibly find themselves in jobs such as with the police of firefighting force,and in such professions where it is possible to identify with a group which hasclearly defined rules and purposes. On the up side, these are people with astrong moral compass; they can be counted on to do the right thing. They dovolunteer work. They become politicians. They are generally solid people. Onthe down side, their "us against them" thinking can turn intobigotry, paranoia, and "playing the martyr."

In relationships, they can appear almost Two-like sometimes. Their need forpeople in their lives, coupled with the sexual instinct being last, causes themto worry about the close bonds they have with others and can also cause them to"go towards" while at the same time requiring validation about thestrength of the bond. On the down side, they can become very critical of otherswhen they fear their differences. Their need to find security within the groupis threatened when others don’t do things the way they do or think the way theythink. This occurs mostly when this subtype is unhealthy. When they arehealthier, the differences between themselves and others are not bothersome andmay even be seen as reassuring.



Social/Sexual

This type can be very different from the other social type, because with thistype, security comes from making alliances with individuals. Their weaknesscomes from their self-pres instinct being last, so they are not as independentas the self-pres/soc. They rely on key people in their lives when doubt setsin. Their security comes from maintaining close bonds. They fear rejection muchmore than the soc/self-pres. This softens the strong stances seen in thesoc/self-pres, because the soc/sex doesn’t find its security in organizationsand government. They go through life looking for the people they think will beable to direct them. On the down side, they can make individuals into theirauthority figures and rely too much on them. They are a lighter Six. They gowith the flow more than the other subtypes. They are likely to use humor tocharm people, but on the down side may whine and complain about theircircumstances to garner support. When healthier, their charm, enthusiasm andcuriosity are infectious. They are very loyal friends, although that can besaid more or less about all reasonably healthy Sixes. But with theself-pres/soc and the soc/sex nothing much more then your support is required,for maintaining their friendship.



Sexual/Self-pres

The sexual/self-pres Six is more concerned with strength, beauty and merging.With this stacking, the counterphobic energy is directed more towardindividuals than towards ideas and concepts. It’s more about controlling thepeople closest to them. Paranoia arises when the Six feels abandoned byintimates. In the sexual/self-pres Six, doubt and anxiety is relieved by theknowledge that one*s intimates really are trustworthy. These Sixes are alwaystesting their mates for loyalty. The sexual Six is counterphobic in terms ofneeding to prove their desirability and strength.

This type is identified with their respective gender roles for security. Theycan be competitive and appear Eight-like. Male Sixes are likely to showstrength as a form of counterphobia. Female Sixes are likely to emphasize theirlooks in order to be attractive. Security comes from knowing they aredesirable. They can be very possessive of their mates. This can turn to extremejealousy. On the down side, paranoia about the relationship can set in. Thesexual/self-pres Six can appear Three-like, because of their need forvalidation and competitiveness.

On the high side, this subtype can be the most fiercely loyal to theirfriendships and to those loved ones who have gained their trust. The intensityof the sexual instinct brings with it a passion that is unwavering for the loveand protection of their loved ones. The nature of the Six to "gotowards," combined with the merging of the sexual instinct, can sometimescreate an idealization of others, the ones that have passed the test of theSix. On the down side, the fear of losing the close relationship can cause thissubtype to desperately lash out counterphobicaly.



Sexual/Social

The counterphobic stance of the sexual Six can be seen in competition forattracting the right mate, and in testing to see who is worthy of trust. Thisis true of both sexual subtypes and especially true of the sexual/social. Thistype is likely to be found quite commonly among actresses and actors as theytend towards a dramatic presentation. Their need to be identified with theirdesirability and their strong social instinct, combine to sometimes make thempublic figures. They are less possessive of their mates, but still feel theneed to have control in the relationship. They can have a very focusedintensity. They can appear Four-like in their desire to express themselves andgive into their passions. They define themselves in accordance with theprevailing gender norms opting to appear masculine or feminine as the case maybe. This outward energy is sometimes counterbalanced with inward doubting,which can lead to depression, anger, and acting out, at the lower levels ofhealth.

Anxiety isn’t as noticeable with the sexual variant of type Six, especiallywhen the self-pres instinct is last. The typical things we associate withanxiety aren’t obvious with this subtype. Their anxiety is focused in the arenaof relationships, and since their stance is mostly counterphobic, anxiety isnot always obvious, and the Six too might be unaware of its presence. This canbe true of all the subtypes of type Six. Their anxiety exists at a core levelso that Sixes don*t always know how to gauge its existence. So, even the morevisibly anxious subtypes might not be aware of their underlying anxiety. Thesexual/social can appear Eight-like, in their defense of their loved ones andsocial standing.

楼主 DonRiso  发布于 2014-10-26 15:27:00 +0800 CST  
六号的本能变体

自保/社交
这个六号的子类型总体上是温和而友好的。自保和社交本能以这样的一种方式组合在一起以至于这些六号注意在同盟中寻求安全。这个类型是六号所有本能类型中最少有反恐惧倾向的。这并不意味着他们他们一定不会反恐惧,只是这不是他们建立他们安全感的方式。他们更会在志趣相投的人中找到安全感。家庭和传统通常对他们而言是非常重要的。他们在一些方面像第一型人格:让事情完成的能力、责任感、忠诚。当涉及生活细节,这一类型通常是非常独立而积极主动的。在另一方面,他们也许会因焦虑而被“冰冻”。这个类型是最明显的焦虑的六号。他们让自己在担忧中筋疲力尽。
在人际关系中,当处于健康状态,他们是非常忠诚而值得信任的。自保本能与类型六结合带来了对安全感的关注。自保/社交六的安全感由跟他人和群体的联系而产生。这些与他人的同盟带来了一种“趋向”。这种态度通常包含着为了确保他们安全而对他人的测试。另一个人是否在心里有着和六号一样的兴趣呢?他们质疑其他人的意图。这通常不是明显对抗性的测试,但是在决定谁成为他们的值得信赖的朋友或浪漫的伴侣时,测试他人依旧总是一个必不可少的元素。

自保/一对一
这个类型与自保/社交类型一样需要让环境处于有序之中。他们也会通过那种方式表现得像一号。
不同点是他们更多地在他们吸引伴侣的能力上寻求安全感。他们关心他们看起来有大的性吸引力。他们与群体和权威的同盟可能是相当的相矛盾的。因为社交本能在他们本能最后面,这个副型对群体的变化有着一种天生的不信任,特别是他们害怕它损害到自己对于自我保护的关注。这种对政治和群体关注的态度在这一副型中千差万别。自保本能寻求安全感和与他人的同盟,通常在一种“趋向”风尚(群体的方向)寻求,但是与此同时,性本能的能量可以在反恐惧的倾向中显露出来。
他们的密友是非常重要的。他们的对于安全感的问题集中于他们爱的人;他们的焦虑感紧密地与他们最亲近的人的脉动和反馈紧密相连。与自保/社交相比,他们较少对外恐惧。当非常恐惧时,他们的反恐惧天性就会通过幽默感体现出来。他们被强烈(的东西)吸引,有可能会克服恐惧来加入冒险。(特别是有七号侧翼的)

社交/自保
这个类型也表现得像一号,但是是因为不同的原因。这次,社交本能与自保本能相结合给这个副型一种强烈的意愿去知道他们如何适应群体,与谁可以形成坚固的同盟。相反地,他们可以非常反恐惧化地反对群体。他们通常在某些形式是政治的。依附于规则对这个类型是非常重要的。他们对于权威有一些问题,比如反抗性地不信任或太强烈地信任。这是他们缺少与他人的紧密联系的结果(未充分发展的性本能导致的)。他们的忠诚不是对个人的而是对一个志趣相投的人的群体。这一副型也许可能在警察和消防员中找到,这些职业都可以被识别为一个有着清晰定义的规则和目标的。在健康状态下,这些是有着强烈道德导向的人;他们可以被依靠去做正确的事。他们做志愿工作。他们成为政治家。他们总体上是可靠的人。在不良状态下,他们的“我们反抗他们”的思想可以转化为顽固,偏执,和“扮演烈士”。
在人际关系中,他们有时可以表现得几乎像第二型。他们性本能是最差的,他们对于在他们生活的人有着需要,这样的需要让他们担心与他人的亲密的关系,而且也会让他们“趋向”,当同时需要确认他与他人关系的强度时。不良状态时,他们可以变得对他人非常挑剔当他们恐惧他们(与他人的)不同时。当其他人不像他们那样做事情或像他们那样想事情时,他们在群体中寻找安全感的需要就受到威胁。这一点大多在这个副型变得不健康时出现。当他们更健康时,自己与他人的区别就不再显得令人困扰,甚至也许被视为令人安心的。

社交/一对一
这个类型可以是与另一种社交副型非常不同的,因为对于这种类型,安全感来自于与个人结成同盟。他们的弱点来自于他们的自保本能是最差的,所以他们不像自保/社交那样独立。当他们怀疑的时候,他们依赖他们生活中的关键人物。他们的安全感来自于维持亲密关系。他们比社交/自保更害怕拒绝。这软化了在社交/自保身上看到的强硬态度,因为社交/一对一不在组织和管理上寻求安全感。他们在生活中前行,寻找他们认为可以指引他们的人。不良状态下,他们会让个人进入他们的权威形象然后依赖他们过多,他们是较不引人注意的六号。他们跟随比其他副型更跟随人群。他们可能会用幽默吸引他人,但是在不良状态下,他们用哀鸣和抱怨环境来获得支持。当更健康时,他们的魅力,热情和好奇心是有感染力的。他们是非常忠诚的朋友,尽管这一描述或多或少的对所有类型的健康的六号都是合理的。但是对于自保/社交和社交/一对一六号,维持与他们的友谊只需要你的支持。

一对一/自保
一对一/自保六更关心力量、美和相融。在这一副型中,反恐惧能量更直接地指向个人而不是向思想和概念。反恐惧倾向更多地是控制与他们最亲近的人。当这种六号感觉被密友抛弃时会变味偏执狂。对于一对一/自保六号,当了解了他的密友确实是值得信赖时候,他的怀疑和焦虑会得到缓解。这些六号总是测试他的同伴的忠诚。一对一的六号在展现证明他们的愿望和力量方面是反恐惧的。
这一类型以他们各自在性别方面的作用来寻求安全感而著称。他们可以使富于竞争的,表现得像八号。男性六号肯呢过会展现力量,作为一种反恐惧的形式。女性六号可能会加强她们的外表来变得吸引人。他们的安全感来自于知道他们是令人满意的。他们可能会对他们的同伴非常有占有欲。这一点会转变为极端的嫉妒。在不良的状态下,他们会对人际关系有偏执。一对一/自保六可能会表现得像三号,因为他们对确认和竞争的需要。
在健康的状态下,对友谊和那些他们爱的得到他们信任的人,这个副型可以是最极为忠诚的。性本能的强烈带来了对爱的人坚定不移和保护他们爱的人。这种六号的“趋向”的天性与性本能的融合结合在一起,有时可能会带来对他人的理想化,这些人通过了第六型的测试。在不良状态下,害怕失去亲密关系可能会带来这个副型的不顾一切的反恐惧的猛烈攻击。

一对一/社交
一对一六号的反恐惧倾向可以在他们为了吸引合适的同伴/伴侣而竞争时看到,也可以在他们测试谁是值得信赖的时候被发现。这对于两种一对一副型都是正确的,特别是一对一/社交。这一类型在演员中通常能看到,因为他们倾向于一种戏剧化的表现。他们需要因他们的愿望和强大的社交本能而被识别,有时与他们的公众形象相联系。他们对他们的同伴有着更少的占有欲,但是仍然感觉有有需要在关系中掌握控制。他们可以有一种非常集中的强烈。他们可以表现得非常像四号,在他们充满激情地希望表达自己和给予的时候。他们通过对主流的性别的规范来定义自己,根据情况选择地表现男性化(女性化)。这种外在的能量有时可以平衡内在的怀疑,
这可能会导致沮丧、气愤、表演,在健康状态不好的时候。
焦虑在一对一六号的身上不显著,特别是当自保是最差的时候。我们认为与焦虑相联系的最典型的东西却在这一副型上不明显。他们的焦虑集中于关系的舞台上,因为他们的反恐惧倾向是最强的,焦虑总是不明显,这种六号也许也并不注意焦虑的存在。也许所有的六号都可能会有这样的情况。他们的焦虑存在于核心层,所以六号总是不知道如何如何去评估它的存在。所以,即使更明显焦虑的副型也许也没意识到底层的焦虑。在他们保护他们爱的人和社会形象时,一对一/社交可以表现得像八号。

楼主 DonRiso  发布于 2014-10-26 15:31:00 +0800 CST  

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